Friday, August 22, 2008

Lee Eh Kor Boh Wah Eh Kor


Yesterday someone just reminded me of this phrase , Lee Eh Kor, Boh Wah Eh Kor which translates to "your problems is not as big as mine"! . Well its so true everyone has challenges in life ....sometimes more or less ,some too little to be called problems but we make it to become so big that it consume our lives and we become so stressed and unhappy . Its a mental game in which we have to and always try (very hard) to always think positive ,look on the brighter side of it , and more importantly look for an alternative or solution when facing problems .If we think hard enough there is always one .

Yes its so true, if we evaluate our lives there are others who have bigger and more serious problems than us .....we complaint about so many things (yes sometimes i am gulity too) about being not rich , lack of food , thinh about those who hungry , we complaint of not having good shoes , think about the people who are without legs and cannot walk .............and the list goes on .Aren't we all gulity from time to time ?

Again i try to remind myself that i am one of those lucky ones , very lucky indeed. I try to remind myself(again and again) to stop complaining ,live life to the fullest.

I am so blessed and grateful !!!

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Life Changing Moments -


Wow its been a while since i posted anything and yes how time flies .Busy is the word, priority is the focus and yes LAZY is one of them too .

Anyway on 10 August ,i had this "life changing moments" with one of my niece who scored 5A in her A levels and with that results it confirmed her acceptance to university in UK to eventually become a doctor in future !

On the day of her results, we were all on skype and when the page to her results unfolded ...i was just so full of anxious anticipation , hearts beating faster and than i heard a loud scream ...5 A , 5 A , 5A ...I got 5 A ......5A !!!.and i also shouted in joy and pleasure .Wow what a moment and immediately called mum and dad to inform them ...... Wow .....that moment in time ,will change her life forever....seal her commitment to be come a doctor and to greater success . That to me is a "life changing moment" out of hard work , passion ,commitment,love and of joy , happiness beyond words , which cannot be bought by all the money in the world !! That life changing moments are something we need to create not only for ourselves and for people around us .....a simple gesture , a smile , a token , a phone call , a gratitude , a deed , a caring gesture , anything that its so valuable but PRICELESS, that to me is what life changing moments are !!